My 2021 Year-End Reflections: Embracing Growth Through Adversity
As 2022 is fast approaching, I find myself reflecting on the year that has gone by – a year that can be best described as a storm that I had to navigate. It feels like just yesterday when I welcomed 2021 with ambitious goals, grit, and excitement, my planner brimming with milestones and agendas. It was supposed to be a pivotal year, marked by launching a business, unveiling a label, moving into a new workspace, and achieving personal milestones.
Yet, looking back at the whirlwind that 2021 turned out to be, I am reminded of the naivety of my plans and goals and the mayhem that ensued. I have stumbled, fallen, and faced seemingly insurmountable challenges. Despite the setbacks, I have grown stronger and more resilient.
I hit rock bottom during the most challenging times, questioning my ability to face the day. But somehow, I kept going. I managed to keep the faith and maintain a positive outlook even when everything was falling apart. I have learned that it's okay not to consistently achieve ambitious milestones – it's okay to fall short and still keep moving forward.
The last two years have been incredibly challenging, testing my optimism, courage, and patience in the most brutal ways imaginable. But amidst the chaos, I also have a renewed appreciation for slowing down, breathing, and carrying love and forgiveness in my heart.
When my father suffered a brain haemorrhage and went into coma, I was consumed by hopelessness and regret. Miraculously, he regained consciousness, and I am now grateful for the opportunity to make amends and cherish the life lessons he has imparted.
As I return to work after a period of absence, I find myself grappling with self-doubt and uncertainty. In the past, my self-worth has been closely tied to my professional achievements, but I now recognize the importance of maintaining a healthy balance. I am learning to embrace my worth beyond my career accomplishments and to be gentle with myself as I navigate this journey.
In the process of healing and recovery, I have discovered the power of celebrating small victories, focusing on personal growth, and redefining my identity beyond professional laurels. I am learning to let go of the things and people that do not serve me, to strive for continuous self-improvement, and to accept that life doesn't always unfold according to our plans.
I am learning to let go gracefully, to strive for constant self-improvement, and to accept that things don't always work out as planned. Most importantly, I am learning to forgive myself.
Throughout this year, I have become more intentional about the people I choose to surround myself with, and I have learned the value of walking away from those who do not contribute to my growth. As a result of a friend's advice, I am consciously removing negative language from my thoughts and conversations, focusing instead on cultivating positivity and self-compassion.
A friend recently advised me not to call myself a mess – a suggestion that resonated deeply with me. Since then, I have been consciously removing negative words, phrases, and thoughts from my vocabulary and mind.
I am working towards becoming the best version of myself, both professionally and personally. I am filled with gratitude for the blessings in my life – my father's remarkable recovery, the support of my family and friends, and the kindness of new acquaintances.
I am looking forward to the coming year with renewed promise, goals, grit, and excitement, ready to chase my dreams while being gentle with myself.
Here's to growth, resilience, and gratitude. Here's to embracing the storms of life and emerging stronger on the other side.